One of the biggest questions I get when it comes to dating Filipinas is are Filipinas loyal? All it takes is a quick google search and you’ll see tons of stories of guys who have been cleaned out by Filipinas. It’s easy to get a negative impression of Filipinas. Just remember bad news travels fast but good news travels slow.
Are Filipinas Loyal?
No culture or nationality has a monopoly on loyalty or disloyalty. Filipinas are just as loyal as other girls. Their loyalty depends on their circumstances and their reasons for dating a foreign guy. So the bigger question is how to determine if a particular Filipina is loyal or not. Here are some tips to know if your Filipina is loyal.
- Look at her circumstances
- Say ‘No’ to ‘Yes’ Girls
- Easy Come Easy Go
- The Thing About Cousins
- She Should Like Surprises
Look at Her ‘Why’
The best way to determine the loyalty of a person is to look at the ‘why’. Why is she seeking a man old enough to be her father thousands of miles away? Now don’t get me wrong just being on a dating site doesn’t automatically mean she’s a scammer. But often these sites will attract women with less than ideal circumstances such as: multiple children with multiple men, single mothers, and just women from very poor families.
My point is if you get a desperate woman she’s less likely to be loyal as she’ll do anything for anyone to bring her out of poverty. That’s not to say, of course, that all poor girls are scamming hussies. It’s just the poorer she is and least desirable to Filipino men she is the more likely it is that she’s dating you out of desperation and not out of love.
Desperate people are the least likely to be loyal.
Say “No” To “Yes Girls”
When you begin dating in The Philippines or meeting Filipinas online you will undoubtedly get a ton of ‘yes’ women. A woman that likes everything you like and agrees with everything you say.
On the surface that might seem great. A woman that doesn’t argue and will just go along with you. The problem is a ‘yes’ girl isn’t honest. A woman that will say yes to you will say yes to any guy. What’s worse is she’ll get bored and tired of living of lifestyle she agreed to but hates and will leave, try to find other guys behind your back, or just make your life miserable.
Easy Come Easy Go
When I first arrived to The Philippines I met this beautiful exotic brown girl. I thought I had hit the jackpot because she never asked for money, not even once. After just two weeks I asked her to move in with me. It was great, the sex was good, she cooked well, and like I said I never asked for money.
Until one day I picked up her phone to look for the number of a pizza delivery place and I saw it. A text message saying “I love you” to a local. When I confronted her she said it was her cousin and that they were just really close. It didn’t take a genius to figure out that was he real Filipino boyfriend. I even saw a message telling her ‘its not the right time’ to ask for money.
A woman that will commit to you quickly will break it just as fast. Real relationships with a strong base take time to build that foundation. If you build a relationship on superficial reasons such as good sex or that you like to dominate a person then that relationship is less likely to succeed.
A girl that’s willing to commit easily and be completely dominated isn’t as likely to stick around as much of a girl who thought it through and is with you out of love. Remember Filipinas get scammed too. A decent girl is worried about being used for sex just as much as you’re worried about being used for money. That’s why a loyal Filipina won’t commit right away.
Impulsiveness is the antithesis of success. A woman who lacks discipline is a woman who will easily succumb to temptations to cheat or to leave for another guy who can offer her a better deal. You want a woman who thinks things through prior making a move.
The Thing About Cousins
If you want to date a Filipina you really need to watch out for male cousins. As what happened to me a male cousin can often be her actual lover. Yes Filipino families are close but it’s not normal for a Filipina to be constantly texting a male cousin and telling him he loves her.
It there seems to be a particular male cousin that always seems to pop up in her life for some reason that’s bad news. Want to know if it’s her cousin or her lover? Ask her to cut him out of her life completely. If she hesitates or flat out refuses then you know something’s wrong. Someone in love should have no problem adjusting their relationships with members of the opposite sex to make sure it doesn’t look like there’s any funny business going on. Another good way if she has children is to see how they react when they see her ‘cousin’. If they haven’t seen him for a few days and run up to him and hug him as if he’s their father it’s probably because he is.
She Should Like Surprises
One of the best ways to determine if your Filipina is legit or not is to do a surprise visit. Someone in love should be happy to be around their lover no matter way. If you show up unannounced and her reaction is anything other than delight, or shock then delight, I would end the relationship. There’s no good reason for her to be irritated or even angry by a surprise visit from someone she loves. You owe it to yourself to do at least one surprise visit!
The most important thing I want to say is not to be too paranoid and to trust your instincts. If you just aren’t feeling right about this relationship it may be time to move on. The Filipina to Foreigner ratios are in your favor so don’t be afraid to walk away and find another girl if this particular one smells funny.